Why do Christian males have a reputation of being selfish lovers?

Christian males have a reputation of not caring whether their partner is sexually satisfied. It seems that Christian males typically care only about their own satisfaction; they tend to be 'wham-bam-thank-you-mam' type lovers, and then they roll over and go to sleep. Do you find this is true in your experience and why do you think Christian males take no pleasure in the giving of pleasure?|||As soon as they let their baby juice loose its off that caboos to snooze some loose cuz they use their bible as an excuse.





It is good for a man not to touch a woman. Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband. -- 1 Corinthians 7:1-2





For I would that all men were even as I myself.... I say therefore to the unmarried and widows, It is good for them if they abide even as I. But if they cannot contain, let them marry: for it is better to marry than to burn. -- 1 Corinthians 7:7-9





Art thou bound unto a wife? seek not to be loosed. Art thou loosed from a wife? seek not a wife. -- 1 Corinthians 7:27





But this I say, brethren, the time is short: it remaineth, that both they that have wives be as though they had none. -- 1 Corinthians 7:29





Wives, be in subjection unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, and Christ also is the head of the church, being himself the saviour of the body. But as the church is subject to Christ, so let the wives also be to their husbands in everything. Ephesians 5:22-24|||Many christian males are like this. And it makes sense because the Christian church is known to have high rates of violence against women. It is 100% true that many males abuse scriptures so that they can abuse their wife.



Now, do all christian males do this? No way. The church is also known for having some of the best males, who fully listen to the scriptures and treat their wives like queens and feel like they don't deserve their wife.



My husband is one of the best men in the world. He is completely unselfish. And he cares about me more than anything. He is not a selfish lover either.|||As a Christian, they ought not to have any reputation at all.


This is not primarily a performance topic, like a Celebrity Dancer. It's a personal thing.





"But among you there must not be even a hint of sexual immorality, or of any kind of impurity, or of greed, because these are improper for God鈥檚 holy people. Nor should there be obscenity, foolish talk or coarse joking, which are out of place, but rather thanksgiving. For of this you can be sure: No immoral, impure or greedy person鈥攕uch a person is an idolater鈥攈as any inheritance in the kingdom of Christ and of God. Let no one deceive you with empty words, for because of such things God鈥檚 wrath comes on those who are disobedient. Therefore do not be partners with them. "





Ephesians 5:3-7|||%26gt;%26gt;Christian males have a reputation of not caring whether their partner is sexually satisfied.%26lt;%26lt;





I've been on this planet over forty years and have never heard that one.